Friday, January 14, 2011


I realize that motherhood is the surprise flip side of my particular infertility coin and that, consequently, I should be able to continue discussing parenthood on a 'barren' blog. However, I'm not comfortable posting baby details and my moans 'n' groans about motherhood - infertility and loss do not make for a complaint-free parenting experience - on the other blog which is frequented by a few women (and at least one guy that I know of) who are still in the TTC battle. I have no desire to make anyone hurt.

That's why I really didn't post much during the first year of Ninja's life. I didn't know what to say and what not to say.

So here I am, in a new location. I'm still on Blogger as the tool of choice and I'm still linking my two blogs although I don't think I'll post anymore on Misconceptions and Great Expectations.

I'm not going to write just about my Ninja, though. I need a place to write and so random things might appear on these pages. I want to talk about motherhood after IF and loss, my beloved Ninja, attachment parenting, marriage after a baby, new research into infertility (particularly male factor), and life in general. And from that platform I want to continue supporting my friends who are in various stages of the TTC battle, those who've decided to live childfree, and those who have their dearly wanted children.

If you wanna stick around, I'm glad, and if not, I understand completely!